Archive for January, 2008

Privileged

Kasia January 22nd, 2008

(From What Privileges Do You Have?, based on an exercise about class and privilege developed by Will Barratt, Meagan Cahill, Angie Carlen, Minnette Huck, Drew Lurker, Stacy Ploskonka at Illinois State University. If you participate in this blog game, they ask that you PLEASE acknowledge their copyright.) 

I also extend a curtsy to Lillian at Smithflections, which is where I picked this up.

Bold the true statements.

1. Father went to college (Yes, first in his family to do so.)
2. Father finished college (Yes, and completed his Masters and a specialist certification beyond that.)
3. Mother went to college (Not the first in her family to do so…that was a generation back)
4. Mother finished college (Yes, including her Masters)
5. Have any relative who is an attorney, physician, or professor (Well, if my aunt’s former husband counts…he’s a podiatrist…but that seems pretty stretched…)
6. Were the same or higher class than your high school teachers. (I would guess so, but I can’t really swear to it.)
7. Had more than 50 books in your childhood home. (Heck, the set of encyclopedias gets us halfway there.)
8. Had more than 500 books in your childhood home. (Again, can’t swear to it, as I never counted…but we had a lot of books!)
9. Were read children’s books by a parent. (I am not sure about this one, as I learned to read quite early - around age 4 - so I don’t know if my parents read to me previously. Big Seester?)
10. Had lessons of any kind before you turned 18.
11. Had more than two kinds of lessons before you turned 18. (Swimming, piano, ballet, karate…then if instrumental music in school counts…and I was in a community children’s choir.)

12. The people in the media who dress and talk like me are portrayed positively. (That depends on how you define “positively” - we usually are portrayed as nerds, but I think this exercise is looking to see whether people like me are usually portrayed as, say, a thug or an unwed mother…no, not usually.)
13. Had a credit card with your name on it before you turned 18. (HA! As if!)
14. Your parents paid for the majority of your college costs
15. Your parents paid for all of your college costs (well, just about all, plus they paid for my car insurance so I wouldn’t be tempted to work too many hours and be distracted from my studies)
16. Went to a private high school
17. Went to summer camp
18. Had a private tutor before you turned 18 (Does one session with a National Honor Society student from my high school when I was failing algebra count? I don’t think so…)
19. Family vacations involved staying at hotels (Almost never that I can remember.)
20. Your clothing was all bought new before you turned 18
21. Your parents bought you a car that was not a hand-me-down from them. (No - when I crashed the hand-me-down I was responsible for replacing it. But my dad did lend me the money, which I then paid back just like a car loan.)
22. There was original art in your house when you were a child.
23. You and your family lived in a single-family house.
24. Your parent(s) owned their own house or apartment before you left home.
25. You had your own room as a child.
26. You had a phone in your room before you turned 18. (Yes, though not my own line.)
27. Participatedin a SAT/ACT prep course.

28. Had your own TV in your room in high school
29. Owned a mutual fund or IRA in high school or college. (Yes, but it was self-funded - my father wanted to encourage me to invest.)
30. Flew anywhere on a commercial airline before you turned 16.
31. Went on a cruise with your family
32. Went on more than one cruise with your family
33. Your parents took you to museums and art galleries as you grew up.
34. You were unaware of how much heating bills were for your family.

22 out of 34…more than 50% privileged. Hi, I’m Kasia, and I’m a spoiled brat (by these researchers’ standards, anyway.)

Thoughts on Lent

Kasia January 21st, 2008

My friend Jaibee got me thinking about Lent. She’s already figured out what she’s going to do. It’s two weeks away, and I thought I knew what I was going to do (or at least part of it). Now…hm, not sure.

In the past, I have given up: sweets, fast food, eating out, chocolate, pop (I failed miserably at that one), meat, and probably some other things. (Not all in one year, of course.) Notice how prominently food factors into my penances? If one of the deadly sins gets me in the end, it’ll be gluttony. Well, that or pride. ANYway…
This year one of the things I had planned to do was choose one book to give away off my shelf per day of Lent. Trouble is, I’m already doing it. Yes, it’ll get more difficult as I go along, but that doesn’t really seem quite cricket, if you know what I mean; it seems like I ought to start something more than I was doing before Lent.

Last year I knew two women who tried to give up complaining for Lent. I don’t think they were terribly successful, but then, that’s a pretty tall order for most people.

I think that I’ll spend what’s left of tonight - and as much time as it takes between now and Ash Wednesday - reflecting on how I can use this Lenten season to die a little more to self, and draw a little closer to Christ.

Someone owes me a cookie…

Kasia January 21st, 2008

…and I should learn to keep my big mouth shut.

My vacuum started smelling like burnt rubber, so (of course) I stopped vacuuming. My dad’s going to come over in a couple of days and see if he can figure out what’s wrong. I sincerely hope that it is, as he suggested, just the belt. ‘Cause otherwise I’ve got 18 vacuum cleaner bags and no vacuum.

Reveling in my fogeydom

Kasia January 21st, 2008

My vacuum cleaner bags came.

Eighteen of ‘em for under $30.

They are, in fact, the correct ones.

So I have a two-year supply of vacuum cleaner bags.

Bet you a cookie the vacuum dies before I run out…  :-p

Go Mom!

Way to go, Cris

Kasia January 16th, 2008

Now I want a pedicure. I never want a pedicure!

Progress

Kasia January 16th, 2008

We have a wedding date!

The Clam and the Canuck will be receiving the Sacrament of Marriage (does one receive that, or does one do something more active?) on Saturday, January 24, 2009.

This is very scary, but in a good way. Deep breaths, Clam, deep breaths!

You know you’re old when…

Kasia January 16th, 2008

…it makes your day to find a case of 18 vacuum cleaner bags on sale for $20.

(I will be SO CHEESED if they’re the wrong ones! But I don’t think they are!)

Apparently I’m *not* psychotic

Kasia January 15th, 2008

I’m sure The Canuck is relieved to know that.  :-p

My mother sent me a “Psycho Test” via e-mail. It was a forward I actually hadn’t seen before, and I’m kind of curious as to how people actually do on it, so I’m posting it here.

A woman, while at the funeral of her own mother, met this guy whom she did not know. She thought this guy was amazing, so much her dream guy she believed him to be just that! She fell in love with him right there, but never asked for his number and could not find him. A few days later she killed her sister.Question: What is her motive in  killing her sister?

Give this some thought before you answer, then click to read more… Continue Reading »

Prayer requests

Kasia January 14th, 2008

First, as I’m embarrassed to say I didn’t think to post this prayer request sooner, my friend DJ’s co-worker’s grandson is being treated for cancer. Prayers would be deeply appreciated.

Second, this morning I was told about a young woman, home from college, pregnant, whose father took her to get an abortion. I’m not sure how much pressure or coercion might have been involved, but she committed suicide two days later. I don’t know her name, but God does; please pray for both her and the baby. And please pray for her father as well - again, I don’t know his name, but God knows each of us by name, and surely He won’t disregard heartfelt prayers just because we don’t know who exactly we’re praying for.

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