We could have all worn identical purple polo shirts from Lands End, but I did not want to be that uniform. I was annoyed that they didn’t have a decent polo shirt in a lilac shade for women (they did for men, go figure).

I do recommend solids or very muted patterns. I think the main point of having a “uniform” of some sort is to reduce the distraction to the eye. Patterns or non-coordinated clothing draw attention away from the people, which is the main intended focus of the picture.

And lastly, my youngest sister (married to “Mr. Green”) is a big proponent of giving the biggest smile possible in a picture, and although I am reluctant to admit it, I think she’s right. Instead of trying to look serious or nice or simply “not stupid”, just flash a big grin and you’ll look better than any other facial expression.

@Jaibee: In this instance, I think you are fortunate to be solo. You don’t have to worry about coordinating with your fellow subjects – you are the STAH! (Hey, we’ve got to pull out those silver linings.)

@Heather: I think you’re right that with very small children it’s cute instead of sickening, but I’m sure you know the ways it can manifest as “sickening” as well.

My mother would totally do that…only she wouldn’t just contrast; she’d clash. :-p